tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2942850662669639187.post5944837499515574214..comments2023-12-15T00:35:53.599-08:00Comments on Emergence Into Submission: On the relative scarcity of kinky humansCharliB.http://www.blogger.com/profile/07348297302596893151noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2942850662669639187.post-84154934646108225262010-08-03T02:09:39.128-07:002010-08-03T02:09:39.128-07:00It’s a bit like being gay in the 60’s or 70’s, isn...It’s a bit like being gay in the 60’s or 70’s, isn’t it, being a kinkster that is? Even though the Internet has allowed kink to hit the mainstream (I actually saw a model in a major department store ad wearing a collar and shackles), the actually practice of it seems rare.<br><br>But…it’s not.<br><br>Once you start to notice the signals, you will find those kindred spirits and begin a dialogue. Once you begin to throw out certain signals in the vanilla world, suddenly some vanillaite cocks an eyebrow, and asks…<br><br>“Um…are you submissive?”<br><br>“Um…yeah.”<br><br>“ME TOO!”<br><br>You think it’s hard to find sub friends? Try finding Dom friends if you’re a non-tatooed, no leather, non-sadistic, intelligent, in-shape, articulate, and fairly low-key hilarious guy.<br><br>I’d love to have a beer with one of those guys…<br><br>Good luck,<br><br>-BMissy n’ Bnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2942850662669639187.post-29466020314169069292010-08-09T16:29:10.692-07:002010-08-09T16:29:10.692-07:00*smile*..and here I was feeling sorry for myself! ...*smile*<br><br>..and here I was feeling sorry for myself! <br><br>If I happen to see any non-tatooed, no leather, non-sadistic, intelligent, in-shape, articulate, and fairly low-key hilarious "other" D. guys, I will send them your way.<br><br>I use to think as you do, that if I look HARD enough, the sorta closet kinksters would come out of the woodwork and reveal themselves; but so far, there are none in sight.<br><br>I will keep looking.<br><br>We all need someone to relate to.Charlihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07348297302596893151noreply@blogger.com