Monday, May 25, 2009
Thoughts on ending a 20 year marriage...
How can you leave all that you know?
a life full of possessions and memories...
a man who loves you.
Leave your beautiful house, your wonderful neighbors?
Are you mad?
Why would anyone do such a thing...
do you not know how scary it is out there;
what a struggle it will be for you...?
You are no longer young, you are no longer beautiful.
The man in this house accepts that, and still loves you...so,
why would you go,
what could you possibly gain?
What is lacking now...passion?...desire?
Do you know of other 20 year old LTRs that have managed to retain these things?
Okay so...he does not accept you for who you are in your entirety,
he does not know your entirety,
How much does this matter to you;
can you go on living secrets for the rest of your life?
and if he did learn you?
if you were to reveal in totality the person you truly are;
perhaps give him the address of this blog...
what would happen?
He would explode,
fireworks, the likes of which, you have never seen before...
how well do you know him...do you know this for a fact?
Would he not embrace you later,
after he calmed down?